Questions and Answers

Do I continue to pray and stand for my spouse when they are planning a wedding with the other person?

Yes. Bob was planning a wedding. My Lord showed me that I had married Bob for life regardless of his behavior. We had a covenant. They were legalizing their adultery. These answers have developed in response to questions we have received over many years. May you consult the answers with an open Bible and an …

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I have been praying and standing for my marriage. I just found out that my spouse has moved the other person into our family home.

I know how difficult this situation is but I will tell you what Bob and Charlyne always tell us – take it to God in prayer. Let Him give you the wisdom and guidance you need at this most difficult time. God has spoken to your heart. He has given you promises. These are the …

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I’m not sure what to pray for any longer. My spouse has married the other person.

A remarriage is a difficult circumstance. I know this from personal experience. I remember something Bob wrote one time in one of his devotionals that has really helped me. “Your spouse is trying to connect their heart, emotions, feelings and soul to someone else’s! They can never do it, because their heart made a covenant, …

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How do I pray for my children who have become rebellious?

I would pray at least two specific scriptures for them. “Children obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. Honor your father and mother–which is the first commandment with a promise–that it may go well with you and enjoy long life on the earth. These answers have developed in response to questions we …

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Why would you want to pray for a spouse who treats you so badly?

I learned that it was not Bob causing all our problems, but the enemy. “For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world…” Ephesians 6:12-13 These answers have developed in response to questions we have received over many years. May you …

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My husband has made it very clear that he doesn’t want me back. Although I started out standing for my marriage, I feel it is time for me to move on; that God has something better for me.

I can guarantee you that God DOES have something better for you – a new marriage built on the solid rock of His Word. He wants us ALL to come to Him; to believe in Him; to obey Him. Many of us have been where you are. We have come to God on our knees, …

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Many times, as I read “Charlyne Cares,” I wonder if you hurt as much while standing as I do now. The pain is almost unbearable. What do I do?

Ask your Lord to remove the pain that you are going through right now. He knows all that you are facing and all your circumstances. Your Lord is the only one that can help you twenty-four hours a day. If you can do nothing else, call on the name of “Jesus.” He will hold you …

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