In this episode, Charlyne sits down with DeAnn to discuss the journey DeAnn was on during her path to marriage restoration. Her marriage problems were evident from the beginning.
You will be encouraged to hear DeAnn’s secret to waiting on God’s perfect timing, and how He equipped her to wait for that day she would hear the words, “Will you marry me?”
God is so amazing and faithful. What a beautiful testimony.
My former spouse still is with the OW he has the affair with. He also come from a family with a lot of adultery whose parents are still married for convenience but lead separate toxic lives.
Occasionally he will ask me to come over for dinner etc. I have said to him that he still has a girlfriend and out of respect for that relationship, unless it has to do with the kids, I’m not willing to meet. (We have met with just the two of us for kids occasionally, but that is few and far between)
How do I prayer for him to have that longing and it is good for me to keep that boundary line? He knows I’m standing for our marriage.
We understand the feelings you are struggling with over spending time with your spouse. Two resources come to mind that would be helpful and we will link them for you. One is Charlyne’s teaching called, “How to Love Your Spouse Unconditionally.” Charlyne was quick to accept Bob’s invitations for get-togethers because she wanted any opportunity to keep showing him the love of Jesus. Something to consider is why are you trying to have a boundary? Bob was struggling with wanting his marriage and continuing in his sin and so he often kept a foot in both worlds during their divorce. It wasn’t always easy for Charlyne to hear about the other person, but she was trusting Christ to carry her through those feelings. Another resource would be 3 Ways to Pray for the Other Person. Pray that God would use her to direct your husband home. https://rejoiceministriesbookstore.myshopify.com/products/how-to-love-your-spouse-unconditionally-cd https://rejoiceministries.org/3-ways-to-pray-for-the-other-person/ We will be praying for you!
I am so honored that you took the time to respond in this way. Your ministry and emails have encouraged me and another stander that God introduced me to at my church. What a miracle to have an “Aaron and Hur” walk alongside me in these ways through your ministry and a friend.
I did look at both resources and listened to them.
I am trusting God for restoration.
You are his wife by covenant, you should not be respecting his illegal realtionship with the OW. To respect their relationship is a trick of the enemy. Pray for God to show you how to navigate through it. I am not saying to be rude or forceful or anything like that but you are in covenant with God and your husband not the OW
Very well presented. Every quote was awesome and thanks for sharing the content. Keep sharing and keep motivating others.
Thank you for sharing!